Human ability to use tools expands our sensual perceptions and makes it easier to appreciate the difference between reality and misunderstandings we have been taught to believe. Hopefully the following will minimize the lag time of unbelieving myths, by exposing the aggressive manipulation of prejudicial rights and wrongs.
Believing the lesser of two evils.
Cultures use fear of the unknown, created by childhood fairy tales to make us think, personal reality is changed by which speculation makes the most sense. Teaching babies to believe we are being watched by santa or god, makes us self inflict judgement and guilt, for the rest of our lives. Our imaginary friend, EGO, is a bully and not to be trusted to define our personal reality. Exposing prejudice shows how disrespectful it is to participate in anything that makes anyone feel substandard.
Believing in speculation is a pacifier for suckers who fear the unknown.
Changing what we believe only changes the color of our pacifier. Unfortunately believing in one color/speculation makes enemies out of believers in other or No Colors. Anything we believe that makes anyone better then others is playing our cultural conditioning.
What makes people HAPPY? Happy is like other imagined emotions that come from what we believe our punishment or reward will be for how we are playing relationship games. Unfortunately our emotional results, good or bad, are also self induced, and reflect how hard we tried. To be kind stop believing and find the animal, you have always been. Really!
Compliments and criticism are two of the strongest game manipulators. Both trigger extreme emotional responses. Like lighting a rocket to our imagined hopes and fears, for emotional explosions.
The trick is exchanging our desire to be the BEST words can describe, to acceptance we ARE PERFECT AS IS. Nature sets the bar for a standard of truth that is the same for all. No belief or understanding is needed by any species to experience momentary reality like our animal friends. Nature's standard of truth makes bullshit easy to spot.
If you had exactly the same background as anyone else, then you would act exactly the way others do. There is no fault or need for forgiveness. Kindness is forgetting the good & bad meanings of imagined differences so we can unconditionally accept and appreciate the fact we are One for All and All for One. Then our perception can focus on sharing sensational presence with humans, more like we do with animals.
Dogs can teach us a lot about unconditional acceptance and appreciation.
Exposing imaginary guilt games will change human greetings.
Being kind starts with looking at what we still believe that makes us mean to ourselves and others. Anxieties only humans experience, come from beliefs in the importance given imagined differences, beauty, wealth, skin color etc. No one deserves the judgemental guilt of prejudicial games.
Human instincts developed long before we got smart enough to think we could do something to improve on natural death and live forever. Our animal core is in real instinctual time of momentary sensual perceptions and is never distracted by bullshit we have been thought to believe. All that is real is here now to sensually experience momentary variations without needing to think about what, when or even why.
Musicians and athletes practice to create muscle memory to minimize the lag time of thinking. If everyone worked on the same Body Memory after a few generations it would become instinctual. Body Language is universal instinctive communication that only takes a fraction of a second, never lies and shows true emotion.
Mother Nature requires no belief or any understanding to continue the earth's PERFECT creation, our source for life. Reality is never changed, believing we can break the laws of nature. The fact is we live in a perfect universe. Nothing is broken or needs fixing. Nothing to do to change your eternity.
Even our chimpanzee like breading history of aggressive cruelty has been needed for us to evolve from the devastating results of patriarchy for a species with "Smart Eggs" for natural selection from multiple donors. Natures computer considers genetic variations we have yet to discover. "First come, first served" is a myth used by men to control women's fidelity and the primary cause of infertility that some infidelity would cure.
Someday we will evolve and rediscover the milk of human kindness that came from millions of years living in non violent matriarch communities like Bonobo Apes. Any tension is relieved with affectionate touch and no one knows who fathered offspring.
All that stands in our way to reclaiming our animal heritage, is believing our egos fairy tales about not being good enough. Reclaiming Focus on sensual / instinctual being, is not about believing or doing something different. Reality is about not believing and not needing to do anything more than our automatic instinctual responses. Reality for all species is in the real time of instantaneous responses to variations in sensual perceptions.
Be Here Now Experiment: Find someone willing to spend a few minutes sharing presence holding hands with eye contact and agreeing not to do anything, so thoughts can be seen as the judgemental distractions they are. The Experiment ends when someone speaks out loud.
Sharing presence is not something words can describe.
So to be Unconditionally KIND and
To tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth,
SHUT UP and let your body language do your talking.
